We humans have a hunger for stories, whether they are epic novels, TV dramas, or a piece of juicy gossip about Geoff the milkman. They’re in our nature. Throughout the history of civilization, stories have been an essential tool for passing on cultural wisdom, and for enriching our hearts and minds.
So it makes sense that stories can help you deal with personal problems, because a story can point you towards different, more helpful perspectives on life.
The brilliant, innovative hypnotist Milton Erickson M.D. was renowned for treating some of his clients purely through hypnotic metaphors, disguised as a series of apparently irrelevant anecdotes. After hearing his stories, Erickson’s patients would often notice changes in their thoughts and feelings happening “as if by magic”.
As an example of hypnotic metaphors in action, here’s a video clip from a workshop I taught in 2010. The student in the video was wanting to run her own trainings, but she was held back by an anxiety about public speaking.
(Unfortunately, the quality of the footage is far from perfect, but I hope you’ll still find it a valuable demonstration).
If you’re new to hypnosis, you may find it interesting to see how hypnotic suggestions can be conveyed indirectly simply through telling stories.
Notice that there is far more to hypnotherapy than the Hollywood cliché of putting someone into a mysterious, zombie-like state and then commanding them to do something. Hypnotherapy can, in fact, be a very respectful, creative, empathetic method of creating inner change.
If you’re studying hypnotherapy, or if you’ve trained in this field, I hope you’ll find some useful distinctions in the video too.
The primary technique I was demonstrating is “multiple embedded metaphors” (sometimes called “nested loops” in NLP).
If you pay attention to the order in which I tell the stories, you’ll notice that some of the ideas and metaphors are “sandwiched” within other ones.
This tends to make these central metaphors more difficult to consciously recall, which discourages over-analysis in the listener, and promotes direct emotional engagement with the stories.
Also, rather than using any lengthy, pre-planned metaphors, I was keen to demonstrate to the group that they could draw upon simple, everyday examples and anecdotes from their own lives to evoke therapeutic change.
With practice, you can do this completely on the fly, so that you find yourself effortlessly coming up with stories that fit the situation at hand. This gives you a very elegant way to communicate therapeutic ideas.
If you’d like to master this technique, I highly recommend the book “The Answer Within” by Lankton and Lankton. It’s available from Amazon (UK) or Amazon (US).




